Im not ashamed to say I love myself, and not in the same way Pee Wee Herman did and got arrested for, but the love a man shares for a fine cuban cigar (wow my sh*t talkin is on high right now I apologize) I mean Im comfortable in my own skin almost to a point that it makes others question themselves and the scent of their shit. Im aware of my faults and my shortcomings and rather than being embarassed by them and tryin to hide them away *I* work on em and try to make sure that their no longer there. At this point reading this much seem like Im giving myself the ol' self five and you know what? I am. Every now and again 1 needs to do that to not only remember their self worth but tell others of it (how else would they know?)
A lot of people will read that and say "Jelani you awesome, cocky jerk" or "Dam that handsome guy thinks far too much of himself" and you know what your absolutely right. My question to those people is why is that a bad thing? I believe that Im the sh*t point blank period and I feel no ways about that and no one should really. If your comfortable in your own skin and you actively make strides to be a better person than who do you really need to impress? That is the key: knowing your strengths and limits and striving to improve on em'. If your confident and an ass than that kinda defeats the whole purpose now doesnt it? If your the type of person who has TOO MUCH ego and thinks their fine the way they are and need no improvement then that will lead to you the eventual title of douchebag. The whole point of healthy ego is makin sure that at the end of the day you can go home and look yourself in the mirror with pride and be content with the person that you are and continuously strive to be better.
Conversely there are those (the douchebags) who go about ruining it for everyone (why is moderation so hard for people? I smell another post coming on) Those people who have absolutely no reason to be so confident in themselves. I mean I kno Im in no position to pass judgement on anyone besides myself (that doesnt really stop me from doin it, Im jus not really in a position to and shouldnt) but there are those people who are grade A douchebags and walk around as tho their the greatest thing since sliced bread (See my hatred of reality television specifically Jersey Shore) with an undue sense of accomplishment that they often confuse with healthy ego and what that does is give so many of these douchebags the idea that their completely in the right for bein the douches that they are smh (shake my head)
The moral of the story (ya Im spellin it out for you guys from now on) : In short a healthy ego is all well and good but if it isnt properly maintained you can end up like our good friend Mr.Bravo over here who is a little TOO comfortable with himself....at least his shortcomings are hilarious to look at
ItsJus2Easy
A lot of people will read that and say "Jelani you awesome, cocky jerk" or "Dam that handsome guy thinks far too much of himself" and you know what your absolutely right. My question to those people is why is that a bad thing? I believe that Im the sh*t point blank period and I feel no ways about that and no one should really. If your comfortable in your own skin and you actively make strides to be a better person than who do you really need to impress? That is the key: knowing your strengths and limits and striving to improve on em'. If your confident and an ass than that kinda defeats the whole purpose now doesnt it? If your the type of person who has TOO MUCH ego and thinks their fine the way they are and need no improvement then that will lead to you the eventual title of douchebag. The whole point of healthy ego is makin sure that at the end of the day you can go home and look yourself in the mirror with pride and be content with the person that you are and continuously strive to be better.
Conversely there are those (the douchebags) who go about ruining it for everyone (why is moderation so hard for people? I smell another post coming on) Those people who have absolutely no reason to be so confident in themselves. I mean I kno Im in no position to pass judgement on anyone besides myself (that doesnt really stop me from doin it, Im jus not really in a position to and shouldnt) but there are those people who are grade A douchebags and walk around as tho their the greatest thing since sliced bread (See my hatred of reality television specifically Jersey Shore) with an undue sense of accomplishment that they often confuse with healthy ego and what that does is give so many of these douchebags the idea that their completely in the right for bein the douches that they are smh (shake my head)
The moral of the story (ya Im spellin it out for you guys from now on) : In short a healthy ego is all well and good but if it isnt properly maintained you can end up like our good friend Mr.Bravo over here who is a little TOO comfortable with himself....at least his shortcomings are hilarious to look at
ItsJus2Easy
Damn this handsome devil thinks far to much of himself..... Btw on a somewhat related (but not really) subject how do u feel about sore losers????
ReplyDeleteP.S. Johnny Bravo is a national treasure
Hmm define sore cause theres being pissed you lost because your competitive and being a bitch about losing. Theres a fine line there and many walk it like an alcoholic
ReplyDeleteP.S Johnny Bravo is a sex ed video on why no should mean no but for the kids to understand ahahhaahah